my wife left me. ("How success destroyed us")

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One day, I came came home to an empty apartment -- my wife had taken our 3-year old son, packed everything, and disappeared back to Japan. There are so many facets to the story but... Success doesn't bring happiness. It just raises expectations.

This video has been difficult for me to share, but I hope for others to learn from our mistakes. Please send the video to a loved one who needs to see it.

(update) Here is my follow-up video on managing money in a relationship https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=60jYI...

There are two book recommendations that have kept coming up, so I want to highlight them if you want to learn more about how love works:
The Rational Male https://amzn.to/2HniYgL
The 5 Love Languages https://amzn.to/31JfQDA

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